Hate is hate, but ironically, it starts SMALL and gets masked and labeled in a hundred different 'acceptable' disguises.
Any problem can be easily resolved if it's caught while it's still small, but the truth (honesty) without compassion is often migrated into cruelty.
I've noticed in life, my life at least, that if I am listening with great sensitivity, I will hear that still, small voice saying a thing is wrong before I act on it. It grows when we first notice it, depending on what we do with it. It can grow into compassion, or it can grow into that historical thousand points of superiority.
Love and G-D have no opposites. I love you. Against Love, there is no law.