I created another YT video for you.
What does it mean to love others as you love yourself? Can we totally love others as we love ourselves when 'others' is even a supposition for consideration? Truth without paradox is a lifeless lump of coal, but we all know the metaphoric value of pressure on coal becoming a diamond. Another analogy is that 'anything I even 'let go' of had claw marks all over it.' But if my hand is surrounded by the free pressure of Grace, then acceptance makes us free.
https://youtu.be/HjKc_kMVc-c