I wouldn't usually publicly view a person's youthful life of abuse as, "Being Raised on Love", but at the end of the day, as adults, how we view our existence is up to us, not the abusers.
Taking our power back is important. Selling our freedom for a bad memory is an ill-advised transaction. Who we were and who we are BEFORE the shit happened in our lives is the point of growing along Spiritual Lines. Our true selves has NEVER gone away, dissipated in the heat of another’s attack. No one can abuse who we really are without our permission and even then, WE OURSELVES can't screw up who were are, so relax.
There's a place between right and wrong, I'll meet you there (Rumi). Relax, God is in Charge.